tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post8891492703343740943..comments2024-03-04T17:13:27.479+00:00Comments on Beth Owen: Nearly A Year...Life-As-Mumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05077958857084535843noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-78483668051816680722015-11-19T09:37:23.965+00:002015-11-19T09:37:23.965+00:00Bless you. It breaks my heart to think of any woma...Bless you. It breaks my heart to think of any woman treating her children like this. It sounds like it will be hard but you will be better off without her around. Mother's are not meant to make you feel like this. You should also be so proud that you are such s good mother when your mother was such a lousy role model. Thanks for linking up to #SundaysStars. I am sorry it has taken me so long to comment. Hugs Mrs H xxxxLucy Howardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01010444596222748813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-7794401577659251682015-11-17T14:10:00.288+00:002015-11-17T14:10:00.288+00:00Oh sending you hugs and love. It's hard when f...Oh sending you hugs and love. It's hard when families don't always work out for the better. We can't choose them and sounds like you have done the best for your own children instead. Thank you ever so much for linking up to Share With Me. I hope to see you again tomorrow for another great round! #sharewithmeLet's Talk Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07730374182778773358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-68580175667518413782015-11-13T22:26:51.687+00:002015-11-13T22:26:51.687+00:00I'm back but this time to say thank you for ho... I'm back but this time to say thank you for hosting #justanotherlinky :-) xxA Moment With Francahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11031827607051282088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-14520756279838309292015-11-13T22:25:20.339+00:002015-11-13T22:25:20.339+00:00What a moving post!! I can't imagine all the t...What a moving post!! I can't imagine all the things that have been gone through your head!! I feel really sorry that you had to suffer like that! :-( It really makes me feel sad. You are very brave to write this post and let it all out!! I hope this post helped you to process all these feelings that you have inside!! I think it is better for you to keep some distance from her as you want to be surrounded of positivity, specially to protect your girls. I'm sending you some hugs and I really hope you can find some closure soon. Thanks so much for sharing this at #KCACOLS. I love having you here. :-) xxA Moment With Francahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11031827607051282088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-44247065549932939612015-11-11T19:46:55.536+00:002015-11-11T19:46:55.536+00:00I'm so sorry you've had to go through this...I'm so sorry you've had to go through this rejection over and over again, it's heartbreaking. Much love to you, you're very brave to share your innermost feelings xx #MarvMondaysAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15675080317606642507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-38194562408392478662015-11-11T10:59:18.754+00:002015-11-11T10:59:18.754+00:00So well communicated with such passion and respect...So well communicated with such passion and respect. My heart goes out to you and your family.<br />#MMWBHAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04028726396174229965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-8138210300561941402015-11-11T07:40:21.880+00:002015-11-11T07:40:21.880+00:00Hugs. I am so sorry that you are going through th...Hugs. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Although as you said, really you are better off. This is so sad and I hope that healing comes for you in one way or another xxx thanks for sharing, it can't have been easy #sharewithmeAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03331951618014454325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-57729570475076140422015-11-10T21:18:10.329+00:002015-11-10T21:18:10.329+00:00I am so sorry you have had to go through something...I am so sorry you have had to go through something like this it must be so hard for you as a mother yourself to understand how someone could do this, I know I do. I really hope somehow you manage to develop a relationship between you both sending lots of love #KCACOLSone frazzled mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16744999025327323049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-2503127412371415642015-11-10T19:48:53.559+00:002015-11-10T19:48:53.559+00:00I'm so sorry you've been through this. As ...I'm so sorry you've been through this. As a Mother who absolutely lives for my children, I can never understand how a Mother couldn't feel the same way! Thankfully, your kids have you as a fantastic Mummy and role model and now you have them to live for. Thankyou for linking up to Marvellous Mondays! Kaye xohelloarchie.bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06903944894795580488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-46420798626989680322015-11-10T15:57:34.175+00:002015-11-10T15:57:34.175+00:00I hope that, in time, you find healing in your rel...I hope that, in time, you find healing in your relationship - whatever that may look like. <br />#KCACOLSAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10958318507966201194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-51034486922473841742015-11-09T17:05:09.943+00:002015-11-09T17:05:09.943+00:00Oh I'm so sorry, you've had such a hard ti...Oh I'm so sorry, you've had such a hard time, but you're strong and have coped incredibly. You are who your little ones need, you are their mum and you are there for them, that's what matters. It's your mum who is missing out, maybe she'll realise some day, but until then keep strong and be mummy and granny all in one for them #sundaystarsAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01790819255682068040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-5648755747957959822015-11-09T16:41:23.450+00:002015-11-09T16:41:23.450+00:00O sweetie, you sounds like you're an extremely...O sweetie, you sounds like you're an extremely strong lady #MagicmomentsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-85846092631302732622015-11-09T14:55:28.763+00:002015-11-09T14:55:28.763+00:00So sorry that you have had to go through this. It ...So sorry that you have had to go through this. It sounds like you are a very strong person to have coped with all this in your life and remain positive and make a great life for yourself and your family. She is the one missing out. #fartglitterSpectrum Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17223279993291949320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-51581259340703911102015-11-09T14:14:02.851+00:002015-11-09T14:14:02.851+00:00I am so, so sorry to read this.
I can understand...I am so, so sorry to read this. <br /><br />I can understand how you feel as my mum has very little to do with me and has only met my daughter twice (because I made the effort). She just isn't interested in us. I've learned that you can't make someone love you or be part of your life. Luckily my MIL dotes on my baby something chronic so she's not missing out on a granny entirely. It just makes me sad because really, she should have two grandmas to look up to. #MarvMondaysAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07644950042796846374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-78716162529962236252015-11-09T11:53:55.632+00:002015-11-09T11:53:55.632+00:00Uh, it's so painful to read it. I understand y...Uh, it's so painful to read it. I understand you I lived with my father after my parents divorce so I was never so close to my mom as I was with my dad (who unfortunately died 2001). Do not blame yourself. It's not up to you. Support and hugs. xxx Rahela (www.raheladrusko.com) #fartglitterAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-51883227322434252992015-11-09T11:29:24.569+00:002015-11-09T11:29:24.569+00:00I read this post a few days ago, I didn't comm...I read this post a few days ago, I didn't comment because I didn't really know what to say, not sure I can be helpful. I suppose I should say that you should just draw a line under it and move on - but obviously you can't just shut off like that. It must be so hard for you. At least, thank god you had a good dad, and you clearly have a great partner and family unit. She is the one who is really missing out, she must have a ton of regrets, she certainty should have xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03589939218960462136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-34570309179487690052015-11-09T10:38:28.444+00:002015-11-09T10:38:28.444+00:00Oh my what a mixed bag of emotions you must feel, ...Oh my what a mixed bag of emotions you must feel, massive hugs to you, having a tricky relationship with your mother I totoally get, but you have had to put up with so much. I feel your anger and hurt, looking forward has to be best and to the love of your own family. *Hugs* #MagicMomentsCoombe Mill - Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10876037849361745669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-82221337023427642732015-11-09T10:19:59.630+00:002015-11-09T10:19:59.630+00:00This post made my heart heavy. Big hugs. I think t...This post made my heart heavy. Big hugs. I think the one of the hardest decisions we can make is that someone in our family is not good for us. Well done you for being so brave and reflective. I hope you can get some peace with regards to the whole situation. It must be so hard. I'm happy for your daughters that they wont have to know what it's like to have such a difficult relationship with their mum.<br />Thanks so much for linking up to #fartglitter. xxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705879580506892159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-43666161927338884742015-11-09T09:48:36.850+00:002015-11-09T09:48:36.850+00:00What a powerful post. Do try not to dwell too much...What a powerful post. Do try not to dwell too much. Some things you can't change. You have your own beautiful family now, who you are doing a marvouslous job with. Stay strong, keep your chin yo and smile on your face and thank you for sharing your thoughts with us! #MarvMondays Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-71192398313909600082015-11-09T08:50:52.362+00:002015-11-09T08:50:52.362+00:00I cannot begin to understand what you are feeling....I cannot begin to understand what you are feeling. It seems to me that you have made a decision that is not only best for you, but best for you girls as you wouldn't want them to go through the same pain as you have. All I can say is that I am sorry that you have been through so much pain with the relationship with you mother and know that because of this, you will have great relationships with your daughters! xxx Mimiroseandmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10898204592837184098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-78999662168949539442015-11-08T19:36:33.711+00:002015-11-08T19:36:33.711+00:00*Sending you big hugs* . It's beyond sad how s...*Sending you big hugs* . It's beyond sad how some parents choose to treat their children and all the hurt and pain they cause them. I know this isn't easy but sometimes it's better to just remove them from your life. In the end it will be their loss not yours. I find it's better to try and concentrate on the important people in my life. xx #KCACOLS Mommy's Little Princesseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14471928157653984357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-26180868096409952062015-11-08T19:35:57.524+00:002015-11-08T19:35:57.524+00:00*Sending you big hugs* . It's beyond sad how s...*Sending you big hugs* . It's beyond sad how some parents choose to treat their children and all the hurt and pain they cause them. I know this isn't easy but sometimes it's better to just remove them from your life. In the end it will be their loss not yours. I find it's better to try and concentrate on the important people in my life. xx #KCACOLS Mommy's Little Princesseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14471928157653984357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-43025306545955290642015-11-08T17:41:40.011+00:002015-11-08T17:41:40.011+00:00Some family members even if it's your very own...Some family members even if it's your very own mother can be toxic for some people and I guess, it's a choice between allowing them to hurt you again or saying NO this time. And I'm glad you've chosen to save yourself. At the end of the day, you must put yourself above anything else, especially when you've been hurt so many times :( Sending virtual hugs. I commend you for sharing this post, must have been hard. Dean of Little StepsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-86904583132218947372015-11-08T12:39:26.396+00:002015-11-08T12:39:26.396+00:00Brave post. So often we hear about dads being the ...Brave post. So often we hear about dads being the ones to turn their backs on their kids. How fortunate that he has always been there for you and your childrenjeremy@thirstydaddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01221526503939455659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3784725009975027840.post-19732245143235748182015-11-08T12:06:04.895+00:002015-11-08T12:06:04.895+00:00Thank you for sharing. This must have been an incr...Thank you for sharing. This must have been an incredibly difficult post to write and I cannot imagine what you must be going through. You can only do what you think is best for yourself and your family. Hugs. #justanotherlinkyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15096315867430850466noreply@blogger.com