Yes My Child Is Having A Tantrum So What?

I've been wanting to write this post for a while but wasn't quite sure if other parents would agree but when the same thing happened again the other week so I thought i'd write about it as I am so fed up of how people act when one or both of my girls throw a tantrum.

I picked Elliw up from playschool one morning at 11am and it usually takes us around 15-20 minutes to walk from the school back home but this day Elliw decided she didn't want to walk and she wanted me to carry her from school until we reached home and there was no way I could carry her for that long and she's never moaned constantly for a carry after school before anyway. The word 'NO' was a big mistake. It took 30 minutes to reach only half way home and in the end I had to phone my partners mother to pick us up because Elliw decided she wanted to sit on the floor and not move so there was no way she was going to walk, plus I think I would of broke down in tears if we had carried on.


I still can't understand why Elliw decided she wanted to scream, cry and wanted a carry that day. Her behaviour and temper are a handful most days so I need to learn to stop giving in for an easy life as it will only be a harder life in future so now I am learning myself to stop giving in so I can have an easier life later on, i hope.

The first road we crossed if i wasn't holding her arm then she would of happily sat in the middle of the road screaming for me to carry her so on the second road we were crossing which was a main road I decided i would hold her but not in a way she wanted me to carry her. There were these two girls around 15 years old, one smiled (i smiled back) and the other just stared at me as if i was doing something wrong with MY child. I was stressed and mad as it was so she did not get me at the right time and what came out of my mouth? 'YOU MISERABLE C*W'. Even though i was the miserable cow, i should have said something else to her but what really gets on my wicks is people starting at you with disgust when your child has a tantrum.

When i am at a reastraunt and one or both of my girls have a tantrum and if someone doesn't like it then they will know very clear that i am not happy with them and in my opinion if they don't like it then they can leave. Obviously if the girls get way too much then i will leave myself with them but if it's just a small tantrum which i know will stop in a few minutes then i won't leave so that other person can have that 'quiet meal' she/he was a child once, so why should i?

Do you ever get stared at when your child has a tantrum?
What do you do about it?
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    1. Firstly, thank you so much for taking your time to read every single blog post of mine. Did you know i have some Guest posts on here too? I shall them what you have said to then.
      Anyway, back to the point. Yes my spelling pretty rubbish. My grammar is rubbish. Im rubbish at explaining things in sentances but at the end of the day this is MY blog. I write for ME. I have worked with plenty of PR's and plenty have come back to me to write more so they must think i am fine. I have a passion for writting and even though i am not great at all with spelling and grammar i would appreciat if you do not write things like this on my blog posts. Maybe e-mail me. But at the end of the day like i said this is my blog. Thanks.

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    2. I think you've completely blown my comment out of proportion. I wasn't referring to your guests posts as they're pretty well structured but I was offering constructive criticism for you to improve your blog. I think your blog has potential and its clear to your readers you invest a lot of time and effort into the work you produce but you lack basic academic skills. If you have a passion for writing then why are you not aiming to improve yourself? Your blog clearly isn't for 'you' as you make public posts and enjoying educating others on your interests and passions. I'm not trying to offend you but I am trying to offer you some advice that will help you gain more followers and interest from PR's. As a regular reader of your blog.. it becomes tiring and tedious reading over sentences that don't make sense. Its up to you whether you take into consideration of what ive said but there was no need to come off as overprotective.

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    3. If you could tell me who you are instead of 'anon' it would be helpful and maybe e-mail me instead of putting it onto my blog post. Yes i write tips and advice etc because i want to. I would rather discuss this over e-mail instead of putting my personal problems over this.
      Like i said previously, i am not good at explaining things in sentances. I never have been. I had speech problems when i was younger & you could probably say i struggle now to with my words and spelling. I was hoping no one would judge me by my mistakes. I wrote this post late at night and i do see one sentance that really doesnt make sense and it was a mistake. Every blogger makes mistakes. I will be deleting these comments later on so if you could email me please
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  2. Some time in my motherhood I remember being scared to go out as my son had a constant tantrum and he would choose places with most people to do it. Slowly he settled down and the tantrum went less and lesser. How is almost 5, we still have them but I tend to look at the situation. Its mostly when he is hungry or tired or something happened to him in school that made him sad that makes him cry. Before I became a parent I tend to judge the parent who is with the child when the child would throw a fit. When I became a parent I got it. Its not the parents fault. Not the child. But the situation. I still look at the parent but now with compassion (because I now know how it feels) more than judging them for whats going on. Sending you hugs.

    #pocolo

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  3. ah this can be so hard! I just kind of drag my little girl now and say nothing. She started getting arsey in Toys R Us the other day. I think if someone gave me a funny look or made a comment I would have to say something back or bite my tongue very hard! xx #pocolo

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  4. Ahh! My youngest used to have terrible tantrums on the way home from school wanting me to carry her....People used to stare. I used to feel so bad but she grew out of it. Thankfully. I tried to ignore it but it did annoy and upset me.

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  5. Tantrums are the worse...Mine is starting to give me a hard time with unstoppable tantrums too. Mostly I find that passer-bys are quite understanding. Us mums may give a another meaning to their stares, but mostly I think that they stare because they understand how hard it can be. I find myself staring and mums and tantrum kids but because I like to learn how they deal with it!
    #PoCoLO

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  6. I think I'll feel like I want the ground to swallow me up when Osian has his first proper tantrum out of the house xx

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