How To Have A Better Relationship In 2019

Have you decided that your New Year’s Resolution is going to be to improve your

relationship? This is something a lot of people will try to do in 2019. No matter whether

you feel like your relationship is going downhill or you simply want it to be even better, it

is important to acknowledge that relationships are there to be worked on. We can always

strive to achieve more and enjoy a better time with our loved one. So, with being said,

read on to discover some of the things you can do to make sure you have a better relationship in 2019.

Try to anticipate issues before they become issues - Think of your relationship like your

biggest investment - let’s say your house! As a homeowner, it is likely that you try and

prevent issues from arising. For example, if you notice a crack in the wall, you deal with it

right? You don’t sit and watch the crack, getting bigger and bigger, to the point whereby it’s

verging on a catastrophe! So, don’t have this approach with your relationship. Instead,

you need to talk about the small issues to prevent them from becoming bigger ones.

Practice using empathy - Empathy is like the fuel in any vehicle - it drives the relationship

forward. It is all about thinking about your partner and what it is like to be in his or her shoes.

You have to learn how to see things from their perspective. Once you do this, you will have a

deeper bond.

Recognise your emotional triggers - You also need to learn how to identify the things that

trigger you and make you feel a certain way. We all bring so-called baggage into our relationships

from past experiences. By understanding your hot spots, you will be better placed to find a

way to self-soothe.

No when it is time to call it quits - Last but not least, if you are really struggling to see

any light at the end of the tunnel with regards to your relationship, you need to start seriously

thinking about whether or not it would be better to go your separate ways. If you are married,

the thought of hiring family law experts and going through the legal procedure may be daunting.

However, it is like ripping off a plaster - once you do it, you will feel better because you have

taken the biggest step onto the next chapter of your life.

As you can see, there are a number of different things you can do to try and improve your

relationship throughout the year ahead. If you follow the steps that have been presented in

this blog post, you can be sure that your relationship will improve throughout 2019. Plus, it

is only going to get better and better, so have some patient. Things don’t turn around

overnight but if you stick at the pieces of advice that have been mentioned, you should

definitely notice an improvement.

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